Toney Ayelbis Atubiga popularly known as Ayelbis,He is an event organizer,Socia media publicist and also into events decor took to his Facebook page and pen down an emotional Father’s Day message to his late Dad.
This is what he wrote:
“On 13th July,1994 the whole family was plunged into despair. It was heartbreaking to see a once active man lying in a hospital bed hooked up to machines. It is hard to imagine that this is the same individual who was previously so active and full of life. It may feel strange and uncomfortable to spend time with a loved one when they are dying. My relatives felt so uncomfortable in the hospital filled with the smells of sickness and death. He gave up the ghost in their arms at 37 Military Hospital.
He died on that faithful day and whenever each Father’s Day came, I would find myself depressed and wondering why other kids still had fathers while I lost mine.
Losing your father can be devastating, especially if you were close to him. You will always miss him, but over the years I’ve found a way to cope with his loss, and the pain i felt initially has turned into a gentle sadness. He will live on in my memories and in my heart. Every year brings days when i feel his loss more keenly, such as his birthday, the anniversary of his demise, and of course Father’s Day.
Losing a father often means losing a protector, a guiding hand, a best friend, and a superhero, But focusing on all the incredible memories you shared and the amazing man he was can help bring light into your darker days.
Mr. Charles Kofi Atubiga though your life has ended, but your legacy of wisdom, integrity, benevolence and courage will go on forever.”
Happy Father’s Day 🎉🎈🎂